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		<title>By: Cas Kopacki</title>
		<link>http://www.iddream.com/2008/01/30/youre-not-only-for-meth-heads-dimetapp/comment-page-1/#comment-218854</link>
		<dc:creator>Cas Kopacki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Feb 2008 14:51:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your points are understandably valid, Tony. Actually, it was interesting to read the different points of view from which lending takes place. I know that consumers should just assume they&#039;re being sold something all the time. I just think it sucks when it comes to such weighty matters that affect your credit (auto sales being one giant gorilla in the room when I say that). 

The story about the Georgian was great. It made me chuckle, which is something I needed at this point of my morning.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your points are understandably valid, Tony. Actually, it was interesting to read the different points of view from which lending takes place. I know that consumers should just assume they&#8217;re being sold something all the time. I just think it sucks when it comes to such weighty matters that affect your credit (auto sales being one giant gorilla in the room when I say that). </p>
<p>The story about the Georgian was great. It made me chuckle, which is something I needed at this point of my morning.</p>
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		<title>By: Tony</title>
		<link>http://www.iddream.com/2008/01/30/youre-not-only-for-meth-heads-dimetapp/comment-page-1/#comment-218821</link>
		<dc:creator>Tony</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Feb 2008 14:26:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;...should the consumer always assume that they are entering into some contentious game of cat and mouse with a lender whether it be a bank, a lender, or otherwise?&quot;

I think there are three categories of borrowers. First, those who are most easily taken advantage of, e.g. people who don&#039;t speak/read English well enough to understand what they are signing. There are some counter arguments to that, however. Do these people come from countries where there are no laws and where the concept of binding legal documents simply doesn&#039;t exist?*  I doubt it. Therefore, they still have the responsibility of somehow researching what they are signing. Also, I work for a large bank and we have a &quot;Foreign Language Contact List&quot; at our disposal, so that if a customer needs help understanding something, we can contact an employee who speaks their language to help. The list is comprehensive - I&#039;m talking Assyrian to Yoruba and everything in between. (Creole? Yep. Bulgarian? You betcha. Even Sign, although it may obviously take some effort to get everyone in the same room.) So even this category of people can&#039;t be totally absolved.

Second, people who know full well their payments will go up drastically, beyond what they can currently afford, but assume they will be making enough when the time comes. A big gamble.  I&#039;m sure it works out for some, but when it doesn&#039;t, it&#039;s both the borrower&#039;s and lender&#039;s fault for taking that risk.

Third, people who are fully able to read/research/understand what they are signing, but don&#039;t out of laziness or misplaced trust in the broker or lender they are dealing with.

So to answer your question, the answer is &quot;yes.&quot;  Always assume that when someone is trying to sell you something, they might not choose to be totally straight with you. That&#039;s just reality, unfortunately. You might find that you actually ARE dealing with a trustworthy person, but why not double check before &quot;signing your life away,&quot; as you put it? No matter how many laws are put in place to protect the consumer, you can&#039;t legislate against a slick sales pitch.

Lastly, even the most honest lender can&#039;t predict with certainty what will happen a few years down the road. If a person bases his decision on speculation about what interest rates or property values or his personal income might be in five years, that, once again, is a gamble.  The problem is that too many people on both sides of the equation decided it was a good idea to gamble.

Anyway, Cas, it was the phrase &quot;no apparent reason&quot; that caught my eye, and you probably didn&#039;t even mean that 100% literally. (And yet here we are, five thousand words later.) And thanks guys for the &quot;welcome back.&quot; I got burned out on the whole idea of online arguing. Still am, really, but I felt like chiming in on this one.

*We had a guy from Georgia (the country) doing some sort of internship in my department a while back and he said his country does not have a credit reporting system like we have here. I asked him, &quot;So how do you decide if you should make a loan, then?&quot;  He replied, &quot;You look at the person&#039;s eyes and you can just tell.&quot; It&#039;s amazing to think that it used to be done that way here, too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;&#8230;should the consumer always assume that they are entering into some contentious game of cat and mouse with a lender whether it be a bank, a lender, or otherwise?&#8221;</p>
<p>I think there are three categories of borrowers. First, those who are most easily taken advantage of, e.g. people who don&#8217;t speak/read English well enough to understand what they are signing. There are some counter arguments to that, however. Do these people come from countries where there are no laws and where the concept of binding legal documents simply doesn&#8217;t exist?*  I doubt it. Therefore, they still have the responsibility of somehow researching what they are signing. Also, I work for a large bank and we have a &#8220;Foreign Language Contact List&#8221; at our disposal, so that if a customer needs help understanding something, we can contact an employee who speaks their language to help. The list is comprehensive &#8211; I&#8217;m talking Assyrian to Yoruba and everything in between. (Creole? Yep. Bulgarian? You betcha. Even Sign, although it may obviously take some effort to get everyone in the same room.) So even this category of people can&#8217;t be totally absolved.</p>
<p>Second, people who know full well their payments will go up drastically, beyond what they can currently afford, but assume they will be making enough when the time comes. A big gamble.  I&#8217;m sure it works out for some, but when it doesn&#8217;t, it&#8217;s both the borrower&#8217;s and lender&#8217;s fault for taking that risk.</p>
<p>Third, people who are fully able to read/research/understand what they are signing, but don&#8217;t out of laziness or misplaced trust in the broker or lender they are dealing with.</p>
<p>So to answer your question, the answer is &#8220;yes.&#8221;  Always assume that when someone is trying to sell you something, they might not choose to be totally straight with you. That&#8217;s just reality, unfortunately. You might find that you actually ARE dealing with a trustworthy person, but why not double check before &#8220;signing your life away,&#8221; as you put it? No matter how many laws are put in place to protect the consumer, you can&#8217;t legislate against a slick sales pitch.</p>
<p>Lastly, even the most honest lender can&#8217;t predict with certainty what will happen a few years down the road. If a person bases his decision on speculation about what interest rates or property values or his personal income might be in five years, that, once again, is a gamble.  The problem is that too many people on both sides of the equation decided it was a good idea to gamble.</p>
<p>Anyway, Cas, it was the phrase &#8220;no apparent reason&#8221; that caught my eye, and you probably didn&#8217;t even mean that 100% literally. (And yet here we are, five thousand words later.) And thanks guys for the &#8220;welcome back.&#8221; I got burned out on the whole idea of online arguing. Still am, really, but I felt like chiming in on this one.</p>
<p>*We had a guy from Georgia (the country) doing some sort of internship in my department a while back and he said his country does not have a credit reporting system like we have here. I asked him, &#8220;So how do you decide if you should make a loan, then?&#8221;  He replied, &#8220;You look at the person&#8217;s eyes and you can just tell.&#8221; It&#8217;s amazing to think that it used to be done that way here, too.</p>
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		<title>By: Cas Kopacki</title>
		<link>http://www.iddream.com/2008/01/30/youre-not-only-for-meth-heads-dimetapp/comment-page-1/#comment-218714</link>
		<dc:creator>Cas Kopacki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2008 22:29:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, and, um, yeah! It&#039;s great to see you (or, at the very least, your words), Tony!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, and, um, yeah! It&#8217;s great to see you (or, at the very least, your words), Tony!</p>
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		<title>By: Cas Kopacki</title>
		<link>http://www.iddream.com/2008/01/30/youre-not-only-for-meth-heads-dimetapp/comment-page-1/#comment-218711</link>
		<dc:creator>Cas Kopacki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2008 22:26:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, I&#039;m not completely faulting the lending industry for doing this (and, doesn&#039;t it sound perverse to call lending an &quot;industry&quot;?). I know so many people just sign their lives away without reading the papers set in front of them. However, leaving aside blatant deception of non-English speakers, there&#039;s a trick to getting people to sign off on papers they have no full concept of. My situation is unique in that while growing up I saw this happen all the time with my parents who were 1) older and 2) deaf. I know now as an adult that there were countless instances where we were taken advantage of because of the above reasons and because their &quot;interpreter&quot; was a ten year-old kid. This is a rare case, but the practice certainly does trickle down. Talk to people who don&#039;t understand what leasing a car actually means... The bottom line is this: yes, consumers should be much more careful with the papers they sign for major purchases, but should the consumer always assume that they are entering into some contentious game of cat and mouse with a lender whether it be a bank, a lender, or otherwise? I think not. Our economy is cracking and it&#039;s partly because of such dishonest business practice....which leads me to, once again, think about Mr. Nader.

Ninja Warrior rules.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, I&#8217;m not completely faulting the lending industry for doing this (and, doesn&#8217;t it sound perverse to call lending an &#8220;industry&#8221;?). I know so many people just sign their lives away without reading the papers set in front of them. However, leaving aside blatant deception of non-English speakers, there&#8217;s a trick to getting people to sign off on papers they have no full concept of. My situation is unique in that while growing up I saw this happen all the time with my parents who were 1) older and 2) deaf. I know now as an adult that there were countless instances where we were taken advantage of because of the above reasons and because their &#8220;interpreter&#8221; was a ten year-old kid. This is a rare case, but the practice certainly does trickle down. Talk to people who don&#8217;t understand what leasing a car actually means&#8230; The bottom line is this: yes, consumers should be much more careful with the papers they sign for major purchases, but should the consumer always assume that they are entering into some contentious game of cat and mouse with a lender whether it be a bank, a lender, or otherwise? I think not. Our economy is cracking and it&#8217;s partly because of such dishonest business practice&#8230;.which leads me to, once again, think about Mr. Nader.</p>
<p>Ninja Warrior rules.</p>
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		<title>By: Tony</title>
		<link>http://www.iddream.com/2008/01/30/youre-not-only-for-meth-heads-dimetapp/comment-page-1/#comment-218576</link>
		<dc:creator>Tony</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2008 19:25:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Couldn&#039;t agree more.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Couldn&#8217;t agree more.</p>
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		<title>By: Randy Bishop</title>
		<link>http://www.iddream.com/2008/01/30/youre-not-only-for-meth-heads-dimetapp/comment-page-1/#comment-218567</link>
		<dc:creator>Randy Bishop</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2008 19:04:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First, welcome back Tony!

Second, Ninja Warrior is freaking fantastic!

Third, I definitely agree that a huge portion of the sub-prime debacle is ignorant/short-sighted consumers.  But most of these financial institutions took on substantial risk by ignoring their customers ignorance.  And when both these parties screw up, the people that can actually afford their home (me) get caught in the middle because the market is in turmoil.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First, welcome back Tony!</p>
<p>Second, Ninja Warrior is freaking fantastic!</p>
<p>Third, I definitely agree that a huge portion of the sub-prime debacle is ignorant/short-sighted consumers.  But most of these financial institutions took on substantial risk by ignoring their customers ignorance.  And when both these parties screw up, the people that can actually afford their home (me) get caught in the middle because the market is in turmoil.</p>
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		<title>By: Tony</title>
		<link>http://www.iddream.com/2008/01/30/youre-not-only-for-meth-heads-dimetapp/comment-page-1/#comment-218445</link>
		<dc:creator>Tony</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2008 15:39:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Show me a homeowner with an ARM whose Promissory Note* didn&#039;t clearly spell out the potential for a significant rate hike, and I&#039;ll show you someone who has the right to claim that his payment skyrocketed for &quot;no apparent reason.&quot;  I won&#039;t defend unethical lending practices, but I don&#039;t have much sympathy for short-sighted consumers either. We all know that between what your lender/broker tells you and what is actually on the documents you&#039;re signing, it&#039;s the documents that really count, so it&#039;s no excuse to play dumb when the other shoe falls.  Blame the concept of the free market if you want, but remember that consumers actively direct the market with their dollars; producers just react accordingly (in this case, to the detriment of both groups.)

* A pretty easy-to-read document.  You don&#039;t have to be a lawyer to comprehend it.  And if you want to actually research what you&#039;re signing, there are resources.

Also, AG is okay, but Ninja Warrior is far superior.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Show me a homeowner with an ARM whose Promissory Note* didn&#8217;t clearly spell out the potential for a significant rate hike, and I&#8217;ll show you someone who has the right to claim that his payment skyrocketed for &#8220;no apparent reason.&#8221;  I won&#8217;t defend unethical lending practices, but I don&#8217;t have much sympathy for short-sighted consumers either. We all know that between what your lender/broker tells you and what is actually on the documents you&#8217;re signing, it&#8217;s the documents that really count, so it&#8217;s no excuse to play dumb when the other shoe falls.  Blame the concept of the free market if you want, but remember that consumers actively direct the market with their dollars; producers just react accordingly (in this case, to the detriment of both groups.)</p>
<p>* A pretty easy-to-read document.  You don&#8217;t have to be a lawyer to comprehend it.  And if you want to actually research what you&#8217;re signing, there are resources.</p>
<p>Also, AG is okay, but Ninja Warrior is far superior.</p>
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		<title>By: Randy Bishop</title>
		<link>http://www.iddream.com/2008/01/30/youre-not-only-for-meth-heads-dimetapp/comment-page-1/#comment-218405</link>
		<dc:creator>Randy Bishop</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2008 14:30:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whatever dad! He started it...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whatever dad! He started it&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Cas Kopacki</title>
		<link>http://www.iddream.com/2008/01/30/youre-not-only-for-meth-heads-dimetapp/comment-page-1/#comment-217664</link>
		<dc:creator>Cas Kopacki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2008 00:45:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tim, I think that Randy is your friend now. When he&#039;s mean to you like that, he likes you. Randy is sort of like that kid in 4th grade that punches girls in the head when he likes them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tim, I think that Randy is your friend now. When he&#8217;s mean to you like that, he likes you. Randy is sort of like that kid in 4th grade that punches girls in the head when he likes them.</p>
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		<title>By: Randy Bishop</title>
		<link>http://www.iddream.com/2008/01/30/youre-not-only-for-meth-heads-dimetapp/comment-page-1/#comment-217416</link>
		<dc:creator>Randy Bishop</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2008 20:05:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You shouldn&#039;t say mean things about the girls you dated. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You shouldn&#8217;t say mean things about the girls you dated. ;)</p>
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